It would seem a TIP 120 and a FET could be made to perform the same task on a smaller signal voltage scale..say 5vdc ..or multiple chips on a common board eliminating the balky relay....
My standard projector case is 9.5 X 12 X 13 inches and the PSU has an interlock to power up the whole unit.....that is what I am using...it has something like 3vdc on the signal and must see a return on the specified pin....
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