Try sending an OSC message to just "/ilda". You should get a bunch of replies (sent back to port 60001 on the machine that sent the initial message - either set up a program to listen there, or use Wireshark) with various state information, sent to /ilda/pps, /ilda/fps, etc., and also /ilda/1/name etc with the filenames of the ILDA files on the card. If you don't get anything back, something's up with the OSC handling; if you get state but no filenames, something's up with the SD card.
The autoplay.txt file needs to have a line ending after each command, which sometimes notepad doesn't put in - try making sure there's a blank line at the end?