Hi Jeejeedr
Fun... :0 Hehe 
I think I hold that record!!!
Your mount should have worked fairly good as far as heatsinking is concerned.
If you do use some silicone grease, be sure it is a tiny amount..
too much can hurt it as well.
Sounds like static got to them to me.
Or, They were spiked by your supply.
Be sure you and the devices are grounded during handling..
A good work area may help as well..I am a believer of grounded Anti-static mats .
Also, Keep the diode wires shorted until mounted and you are ready for connections.
I have also tried these Rohm diodes out..at one time they were going to be used in a product, But the failure rate was too high.
Oh, And Robins driver, Be carefull with that..It can still overcurrent the diode
if you put more than 5 volts on the mod input.
Also, That circuit needs just a bit more work as it may spike the diode by overshoot in the pulses..
The diode is floating above ground...be careful not to ground the mount...it will draw full current unless your diode is isolated.
Good luck with your project.
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