Hmm... I haven't had any problem driving the lasers through the connectors CN13, CN14, etc. Yours has FETs at Q1, Q2 and Q3 though?
I'm pretty sure mine has NPN BJTs (they're marked 1A, which should be a 3904 in a SOT-23 package). I can imagine a FET would be more sensitive to noise in that circuit... have you tried adding a pullup/down resistor? You could also swap them for something like: http://www.digikey.com/product-detai...FCT-ND/3504562 . Does your board look identical to mine?
DogP