I was specifying nylon simply because they will yield under small forces and flex in more then one axis. Steve-O, you just want to lightly clamp the MCA once the Indium caves in. If you go with Bellville or Wavy washers, you might want to buy a bag of the weaker ones and stack them to ensure a light retaining force. If the crystal has a thin edge vertical in your design, have a thin ridge at the bottom sticking out of the copper so the crystal does not slide down out of the mount under gravity.
Properly stacked Bellevilles look like this <><><>
If you have a friend who can mill out a square pocket in the copper for the crystal, leave a gap at least twice the thickness (or more) of the indium sheet around the edges. Make sure the MCA is slightly "proud" of the copper on the output side by .005 or so, that way you can clamp it.
Steve