445 is only an option if you don't mind sloppy beams. If you want good beam quality with minimal divergence, a TEM00 beam is necessary. To me, buying a PCAOM and running your DPSS lasers CW is the best option. The losses might not be much more than if you limited the DPSS output to a lower power and used optical feedback.
Honestly, beam quality is not overly important with laser shows, so if you're not concerned with it you could go with diodes for both blue and red, but you'll still have green DPSS to contend with, and they can be just as noisy as 473nm DPSS under modulation in many cases.
The good news is that there are a bunch of new direct injection diode designs that give a flat-top profile. It's not TEM00, but it is fairly even power distribution across a circular profile. TEM00 is more desirable to people with a desire for high-quality beams, but a flat top profile is MUCH cleaner than the rectangular multimode diode output many of us are used to.
TTL modulation can and in my experience does cause more power fluctuations than analog. Allowing the current to ramp up rather than suddenly pop on seems to smooth the fluctuations. They don't disappear by any means, but they do seem less noticeable. Galvo blanking or an AOM does do TTL nicely and gets rid of these issues, but in my case I just use direct modulation since my TTL systems are only one color.